I Was Welcome At Every Family Holiday, Until I Stopped Paying. Then I Showed Them How Wrong They Are
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Being the go-to person for every family holiday felt good until I realized it was because I always paid.
It hit me at Thanksgiving, watching everyone dig in without a second thought about the bill. They only liked me when I was footing their expenses!
Fed up, I decided to skip the Christmas feast, leaving them without a host. What they didn’t know was what I planned to do next would show them my true worth.
Starting The Conversation

After mulling it over, I finally picked up the phone to call Linda. As the phone rang, I tried to steady my nerves.
Linda’s voice greeted me with its usual cheer, but I cut straight to the point. "Linda, we need to talk about the holidays," I said.
There was a brief silence before she replied, "Sure, but what's there to discuss?" My heart raced as I prepared to dive into the real issue behind our conversation.
Linda's Indifference

As our conversation continued, Linda seemed surprisingly indifferent about me skipping the holidays. "I mean, if you're not coming, it's no big deal,"
she shrugged over the phone. Her relaxed attitude caught me off guard. After all these years, it felt as though she just didn’t care if I was part of the celebrations.
Little did she know, her dismissive tone only solidified my resolve to disrupt our so-called family traditions.
Hints From Mark

Midway through the call, Mark chimed in with a light chuckle, "We might miss those lavish Christmas spreads, though."
His voice was teasing, but I could sense a hint of genuine longing. Although the comment seemed innocent, it was a telling sign that my absence might be more noticeable than Linda wanted to admit.
Mark's words floated around my mind, strengthening my decision to make them understand my true value.
The Wallet Strike

"Well, here's the deal," I started, keeping my tone as even as possible, "My wallet’s on strike for the holiday season."
A nervous laugh escaped me, but the silence on the other end of the line was telling. I imagined Linda exchanging a glance with Mark, their earlier nonchalance fading.
It felt good to finally say it out loud. This year, my presence wouldn’t be bought with excessive spending.